Ramazan is the most pious month for Muslims where fasting, religious penance and righteousness are observed. It is a time for reflection, self-awareness and expressing gratitude for all you are blessed with.
For children to understand concepts of Ramazan, may be difficult or confusing. However it is important to inculcate values of tradition and culture in our children as soon as possible.
Non-Muslim children should be encouraged by parents to learn more about their countryâ€™s culture and understand customs or rules such as why we do not consume food or drink in public during daylight hours or the importance of being sensitive to the feelings of their Muslim friends observing a fast.
Do not be rigid or forceful
Explain the importance of fasting to your child, let them observe the routine you follow during the month and encourage them to get involved. Allow them to try and fast through maybe half the day or on a single day during the weekend.
Getting them involved in prayer time or during morning Suhoor will give them a â€˜grown-upâ€™ feeling and they will be fascinated with traditions and love getting involved. The idea is to interest them and show them the reasons behind why we follow certain customs.
Emphasize on virtues and values
If your child is too young to be able to fast or is having a hard time waking up early in the morning for prayers, your child can still be a part of Ramazan by helping them understand the moral principles this month signifies.
It is a time to be kind to each other, donating to the less fortunate, showing self-control and will power, spending time with family and developing a sense of community while also being thankful.
Inculcate a sense of pride
Sometimes, children get shy to share religious beliefs they have been taught with their friends who may be different, especially when they have not been explained the ideas behind these traditions. Give your children a sense of ownership over their beliefs and let them be equipped to answer any questions others might have about their customs.
Informing your childâ€™s teacher
In order to make sure your child is not subjected to teasing or made fun of by peers around them, it is a good idea to let your childâ€™s teacher know if they are following any Ramazan traditions and make them aware of any changes in your childâ€™s routine.
Sometimes, the teacher herself might not be fully aware of these practices so help them understand the importance of it to your child and you. Your childâ€™s teacher can also help by encouraging your child to conduct a session about Ramazan for their friends (show and tell), narrate stories or show pictures to their class.
Show self-control and discipline
As a parent, it is your duty to teach your children about their traditions and help them understand their culture. Children will imitate what they see, so if you are able to show a strong sense of importance for the month of Ramazan your child will pick up on it.
We cannot only preach and expect our children to learn, children learn through example and imitation hence show them the significance and high regard this month holds and they will soon reciprocate the same feelings.
Be patient while helping your child through the month of Ramazan, it is the lessons they learn now, that will stay with them through their lifetime. Equip them with tools and right values and they are sure to make you proud. â€“ [Gulfnews.com]
Story first published: 18th May 2017